Thanks for letting Bob know about this. I can hardly find words for how devastated I feel or for how unreal it all seems. I actually said to Bob, when he told me, "No, he was in our wedding!" Because somehow it is still impossible for me to reconcile the notion that someone can be dead who was in our wedding. It's preposterous.

It's hard for me to imagine how we could value you any more than we already did, but somehow it feels to me like we do, now. You and Steve shared a special place in Bob's heart and memory and now, you live there alone.

Go collect a huge hug from Sammy and hold onto each other and know that in spirit, Bob and I are in that hug too. What a heartache!

Love,
Susan